New burlesque performer reminder: you can ask if a gig pays
I put up a post on my Instagram recently just shouting out to newer performers that it’s valid and okay to ask for fees. It doesn’t matter how new you are – you are still allowed to ask about payment. It isn’t rude and it isn’t being up yourself if that is your expectation.
In fact, my argument would always be that you are taking your clothes off on stage. Therefore, you should really be being paid. And I would suggest that if performing striptease is something you are happy to do without financial compensation it might be something you need to consider deeply. You are deserving to be paid for your artistry, time and vulnerability.
Before you think about accepting a performance opportunity you definitely can ask what the performer fee is. It isn’t rude to check in and see if it is a paid opportunity. This goes for charity and fundraising events too ! While they might be fundraising for the community or a great cause, it doesn’t mean that the event budget doesn’t include a performance or entertainment costing.
On top of discussing fees, depending on the event it is also worth asking:
Travel expenses
Accommodation expenses (if its an event that is away from home)
Number of acts or performances expected
Expectations around audience engagement (for example photos, mingling)
Photography or videography offered and expected method of deliver
Backstage space and supplies (food, water for example)
Size of the audience and expected ticket sales
Depending on the event organiser or producer you might want to explore if complimentary tickets or special ticketing codes that you can offer followers or students.
All of these things can help you understand whether:
There is a performance fee offered
What the expectations are from both parties
Whether it aligns to your values / goals and needs
I’ve written many times about why I don’t think working for free is appropriate. So, I won’t beat you over the head with a discussion on that.
And there are clear award guidelines that can help you too!
But I know as a newer performer it was really difficult to know how to ask, what to ask – and sometimes to stand your ground and say no to unpaid opportunities.
If you are reading this and you are a seasoned performer, remind yourself of when you were in this position and make sure you help newer artists find and develop these skills. Its one way we can work together to make sure that everyone is paid fairly for their time and talent.
Not sure where to start? I have a bunch of resources on my website like toolkits and ebooks - including some ready to use scripts that can help you politely request a fee (without feeling like a diva!)
Never feel tongue-tied when talking money again! This free download gives you word-for-word messages you can use to ask for your burlesque fee with confidence, professionalism, and a dash of sparkle.
Perfect for keeping on your phone or in your gig bag!
✨ Download it now and strut into every booking knowing exactly what to say.
Grace Cherry
Owner, Miss Kitty’s Meow